How to Choose the Right Celebrant for You!
So, you’re planning a big life event—whether it’s a wedding, a vow renewal, a naming ceremony, or another milestone worth celebrating. You’ve got the Pinterest boards, the venue’s locked in (or at least on the shortlist), and now you’re thinking… Who’s actually going to run this show?
That’s where a Celebrant comes in! 🎉 But how do you choose the right one? Here’s my guide to finding a Celebrant who’ll make your ceremony unforgettable (for all the right reasons).
1. Get the Vibe Right
First things first—your Celebrant will be standing up there with you during one of the most important moments of your life. You want someone who feels right.
- Do they match your energy—warm, fun, relaxed, formal, quirky?
- Do they seem like someone you’d enjoy grabbing a coffee (or a G&T) with?
- Do they understand you and what you want for your day?
A great Celebrant will bring out your personality in the ceremony. If they feel like a friend rather than just a supplier, you’re onto a winner.
2. Check Out Their Work
A good Celebrant will have plenty of ways for you to see what they’re all about. Have a snoop at their:
✔ Website – Do they explain their style and approach? Do they sound like someone you’d want to work with?
✔ Social media – Videos, posts, and reviews can give you a real feel for how they deliver a ceremony.
✔ Reviews – Happy couples and families will sing their praises, so check what others are saying!
Speaking of which… you can have a nosey at mine here:
🌿 Website: hopkinscelebrant.co.uk
📷 Instagram: @cat.hopkins.celebrant
3. Ask the Right Questions
When you chat with a potential Celebrant, don’t be afraid to ask questions. Here are a few good ones:
💬 What’s your process for creating a ceremony? (Do they write something personal or stick to a script?)
💬 How do you make the ceremony unique to us?
💬 What’s your style—romantic, humorous, heartfelt, dramatic?
💬 Have you worked at our venue before? (Not essential, but always helpful!)
💬 What happens if you’re unwell on the day? (Any good Celebrant will have a plan B.)
A great Celebrant will make you feel reassured, excited, and confident in their abilities.
4. Think Beyond the Wedding
(Or Any One Ceremony)
It’s not just weddings! A Celebrant can create a beautiful ceremony for all sorts of occasions:
✨ Vow Renewals – Celebrating years of love and adventure? A Celebrant can help you create something deeply personal and meaningful.
✨ Naming Ceremonies – A wonderful alternative to a traditional christening, welcoming a new family member in a way that suits you.
✨ Commitment Ceremonies – Not legally binding but full of love and meaning.
✨ Any Special Occasion! – Honestly, if it’s important to you, a Celebrant can help mark the moment.
Find someone who understands the significance of your event—whatever it may be!
5. Trust Your Gut
At the end of the day, the right Celebrant will just feel right. You should come away from your first chat thinking:
✔ “Yes! They get us.”
✔ “This is going to be so much fun!”
✔ “I feel totally at ease knowing they’ll be running the show.”
If you’re still unsure after meeting someone, keep looking—because when you find the right Celebrant, you’ll know.
Looking for the One? (Celebrant, That Is!)
If you’re still searching for a Celebrant who’ll bring warmth, personality, and a dash of fun to your ceremony, I’d love to chat! Let’s create something totally you together.
📩 Drop me a message, and let’s start planning something amazing!
💛 Cat
Cat Hopkins Celebrant
🌿 hopkinscelebrant.co.uk
📷 @cat.hopkins.celebrant